As far as issues of control, the choleric in the “Commander–in Chief”! A choleric really doesn’t know what a daunting situation is. They approach situations and relationships with a great deal of confidence, and commands attention and respect. They tend to be effective in CEO and management positions because they approach projects and tasks in an almost military-like precision. They are able to motivate others and make things happen. Because they set things up in such an organized manner, they choose people to get on board that will do things exactly they way they want it to be done. “It’s my way or the highway!” If you aren’t moving at the same clip as the powerful choleric, you will be quickly left in their wake.
While all of these attributes sound great on the surface, the choleric encounters problems with others when they want to exert a little too much force and control over other people’s lives. Because they have difficulty in delegating authority to others, they are also prone to “burn out.” A choleric is usually the least likely of all temperament types to seek life coaching or counseling. However, when they do seek guidance and take suggestions, they become the most redeemed of all the temperament types. A life coach can direct and help them gain insight into how to handle people and situations without total domination. They can also learn to accept people as they are, flaws and weaknesses included, and empower others to feel a sense of accomplishment and confidence. They cease living as that person to be feared and become that person who is revered!
If you can relate to feeling frustrated and exhausted with always having to be in control of people, places, and situations, we invite you to explore the possibility of the life coaching relationship!
Jan M. Drury, M.S., C.L.C. jan@lifecoachingpartners.com
Life Coaching Partners, LLC 